We're lucky. We just are. No matter where we move to, both sets of grandparents are game for visiting -- or in some cases, even moving nearby! One of the cool things that I see every single day here in Shanghai, and likely all over China, is grandparents taking care of their grandchild (and yes, here in China it is grandchild, not grandchildren).
Grandparents are often the primary source of day care here. It's not unusual to see a granddad out alone with a teeny baby. Grandparents together feeding, caring, playing with their grandchild for the bulk of the day. I love watching it. Love watching grandparents play such an integral role in the lives of their grandchild. Then I think to myself, what kind of moron drags their kids 7,000+ miles away from their two amazing sets of grandparents. Morons like me and Matthew. Sorry Charles and Gloria and Roger and Joyce. We love you all very much and will come home soon.
Grandparents are often the primary source of day care here. It's not unusual to see a granddad out alone with a teeny baby. Grandparents together feeding, caring, playing with their grandchild for the bulk of the day. I love watching it. Love watching grandparents play such an integral role in the lives of their grandchild. Then I think to myself, what kind of moron drags their kids 7,000+ miles away from their two amazing sets of grandparents. Morons like me and Matthew. Sorry Charles and Gloria and Roger and Joyce. We love you all very much and will come home soon.